This patch changes the main name of 3 byte character set from utf8 to
utf8mb3. New old_mode UTF8_IS_UTF8MB3 is added and set TRUE by default,
so that utf8 would mean utf8mb3. If not set, utf8 would mean utf8mb4.
Also increase user name up to 128.
The work was started by Rucha Deodhar <rucha.deodhar@mariadb.com>,
contains audit plugin fixes by Alexey Botchkov <holyfoot@askmonty.org>.