Most of the changes are backports from MySQL 5.5. Please note
that the 64-bit build fails with VS 2010 and the 32-bit build
has problems running mysql-test-run.pl.
* Added files for compiling with VS 2010 and added them
to Makefile.am.
* ifdef'ed ETIMEDOUT, because it is defined by VS 2010 now
* Removed not needed /MAP's from cmake files
