Update the SHOW EXPLAIN code to work with the
new architecture (part#1):
Before, SHOW EXPLAIN operated on real query plan structures,
which meant it had to check when SELECTs are created/deleted.
SELECTs would call apc_target->enable() when they got a query
plan and disable() when their query plan was deleted.
Now, Explain data structure becomes available at once (and we
call apc_target->enable()) and then it stays until it is deleted
(when that happens, we call apc_target->disable()).
- Generate correct contents of `Extra` column for UPDATEs/DELETEs that use quick selects
- UPDATEs with used_key_is_modified=true will show "Using buffer"
