Added support to BACKUP STAGE to maria-backup
This is a port of the code from ES 10.6
See MDEV-5336 for backup stages description.
The following old options are not supported by the new code:
--rsync ; This is because rsync will not work on tables
that are in used.
--no-backup-locks ; This is disabled as mariadb-backup will always
use backup locks for better performance.
because plugin code is not only about encryption anymore
(also loads provider plugins), and xb_ prefix prevents name
clashes with the server code (that mariabackup links with).