cmake: merge_static_libs - correct duplicate assumptions (#1583)

This corrects build failures on ppc64{,le} with the
WITH_EMBEDDED_SERVER option enabled.

MDEV-22641 added an unusual case in which the same object
file in was included twice with a different function
defination. The original cmake/merge_archives_unix.cmake
did not tolerate such eventualities.

So we move to the highest voted answer on Stack Overflow
for the merging of static libraries.
https://stackoverflow.com/questions/3821916/how-to-merge-two-ar-static-libraries-into-one

Thin archives generated compile failures and the libtool
mechanism would of been another dependency and using .la
files that isn't part of a normal cmake output. The straight
Apple mechanism of libtool with static archives also failed
on Linux.

This leaves the MRI script mechansim which was implemented
in this change.

.gitignore

@@ -8,6 +8,8 @@
 .*.swp
 *.ninja
 .ninja_*
+*.mri
+*.mri.tpl
 .gdb_history
 .vs/
 errmsg.sys